Hermosa & the Bi☥ch

Fathers' Day is in less than 24 hrs & I notice some ppl bashing them... here's my question(s): Prior to sex did u discuss HIS opinion on children & parenthood? Was there protection used by BOTH y'all? Did u discuss alternative plans (adoption,foster care,Plan B pill, abortion)? What was his future plans (career [u should have ran if rapper],location,education)? If u didn't care enough to get to know him,why did u "know" him? Yes, it takes two to make a baby but it should take two to decide to keep the baby... usually thou it doesn't. Also yes females are left with the (most) responsibility, if u are not doing what u expect the father to do/more then u are a dead beat also. U can't want him to work while u get welfare. U can't want him to spend time when u leave ur child w/ur parents so u can go be carefree. U can't be bitter & bitchy because he moved on. Families are parents,children,friends,(pets) that all LOVE one another. If u ma

I am always the strong one. My best friend shot & killed yet I pulled myself together to hold those that were falling apart. My life is far from perfect nor do I pretend it is. I don't cry about it because there would be no time to wipe away tears and snot. I find it ironic how on May 18th 2010, I posted on Facebook that "Eating pizza while watching The Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles...Tell me my life isn't great." & shortly there after I received a phone call that would impact me & cause me to literally choke on my words. However ,that was day 1, by day 9 of my real-life nightmare,I uncovered information that will haunt me for probably the rest of my life. Due to the fact everyone have their own issues I was forced to carry not one but two heavy ass burdens alone. ... This can't be real,no this can't be life...

 Offend everyone; go to hell with nothing on your conscience.

I came here for a perm, she came to kick it, he came cuz he had no choice now we three are isolated frm the artists,sitting in the back room discussing love. U would think this was odd because me and him are a couple yet we tell the blunt truth. We discuss monogamy,heartbreak,hoes,and marriage. He doesn't think he can break my heart, I think>strike< I know he can. I have even went to the lovely Brook's site [www.absolutebrook.com] & stole this quote for my life:"I don't spell out the word L-ve, because LOVE is the REAL four letter word. Not "fuck". Fucking is easy, not l-ving me is more offensive." -Brook Lynne...Since this conversation a LOT has changed in her life,in his life,in my life. I actually stumbled cross this draft & the title made me smile. We make mistakes that is human... & I know tht there is LOVE out there for each one of us. Who are outsiders to tell us what is OUR defination of LOVE?... Then watchin the Game Marathon y