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Death of Me

     I hate having to choose between having friends or having a boo. Why isn't there an option ME, which includes doing whatever makes ME happy?      Funny my #1 has to be either a partner or my buds. Shouldn't I come 1st?     Doesn't matter the order after because no one is a winner so why should their place be remembered?     I'm suffocating from the inability to breathe. The constant smothering is a pillow over my airways.      If my happiness is what y'all claims matter then LET ME BREATHE. Or live with the fact that y'all were the death of me... Published with Blogger-droid v1.6.3

Hey Mama,

Just read yet another posting of a single female with child(ren) belittling a single male with whom said child(ren) was conceived. Not only did the female trash him but her mother co-signed (as usual gotta have at least 1 other female as hype person). The female's mother compared being a dad vs. being a father to point out that if said male was more than a sperm donor, he would be there & supportive(financially) [thou she said more, it sums up to those 2 things minus the fancy wording]. My problem with this is 1) why is this on the internet? You, as in child's mom, couldn't phone him, as in child's dad? I mean if you all's parenting issues are that severe they need to be seen instead of heard either write letters or get court documentation aka PUT IT ON PAPER. 2) It is easy for you to be in your child(ren) life. You adjust so that your life & theirs is balanced but do you/did you calculate in his life? Are you trying to meet him halfway when he makes adjustm