Fathers' Day is in less than 24 hrs & I notice some ppl bashing them... here's my question(s): Prior to sex did u discuss HIS opinion on children & parenthood? Was there protection used by BOTH y'all? Did u discuss alternative plans (adoption,foster care,Plan B pill, abortion)? What was his future plans (career [u should have ran if rapper],location,education)? If u didn't care enough to get to know him,why did u "know" him? Yes, it takes two to make a baby but it should take two to decide to keep the baby... usually thou it doesn't. Also yes females are left with the (most) responsibility, if u are not doing what u expect the father to do/more then u are a dead beat also. U can't want him to work while u get welfare. U can't want him to spend time when u leave ur child w/ur parents so u can go be carefree. U can't be bitter & bitchy because he moved on. Families are parents,children,friends,(pets) that all LOVE one another. If u ma...
Tale of 2 Fish, One Ponds