Hermosa & the Bi☥ch

All you niggas are my sons... & I have failed you. Should've kicked you out the nest but instead I cradled you. I should've taught you responsibility but instead I took care of you. I should've programmed your mind, so the streets couldn't brainwash you. I taught you about life and how to survive, tell me what exactly is it do y'all feel you were deprived? I did things the way I did because of the choices I made. Who are you or the streets to be throwing my parenting shade? My primary function was to provide for you not the other way around. You came from me that is why I'm ashamed of your choices now. I did what I had to do for the consequences of my actions. I gave you life but the streets want to use you for their own satisfaction. They got you thinking they fathered you. Did the streets do a DNA because I don't recall being they're boo. I fed you from my bosom to ensure you ate, when were the streets ever in a kitchen fixing you...

Family... I love y'all... frm a distance. Partially cuz I moved away, partially cuz some of y'all just distance. But with the new year, let's bring about change *in my President Obama voice* Resolution 1: K.I.T. (keep in touch)  A phone works two ways. As well as answering incoming calls,u can make outgoing calls. It's a new age in technology,learn how to text. At least once a week, a, "Hi, how have u been? Love u. Ttyl (talk to you later)" call/text would be nice. Also it helps to respond to the calls/text u receive.   Resolution 2: Holidays come every year & y'all kno we like to eat. Plan ahead by like 2 wks what we should do, when, where, & who contribute what. Just that simple. Resolution 3: Birthdays &/ Christmas. It makes gift shopping easier to know clothes & shoe sizes,favorite color; toys,sports,games that u &/ ur family are into. Oh & if u need small appliances (microwave, toaster, blender type) let me know BEFO...

So my home boy/lil brotha comes to me like,"Beau, I have a problem…” Me: “What’s wrong?” Him: “I am a sex addict.” My response was simple, “Go fuck your lady,duh!” But see that is where the trouble lies, he’s truthfully not an addict. He just can’t live up to this “every girl’s dream” that he has made reality. He has made this chick wifeY (I emphasize the y because that IMO is all the perks w/o the VOWS & ring) He has shacked up with her, started a family all before their 21st birthdays. Idc at what age you start drinking &/even clubbing but until you’re of legal age you haven’t truly experienced living. Any who he has done ALL this, to now have a “half a mid-life crisis”. You can not just wake up now and be like you don’t LOVE her. I mean why YOU GET her pregnant? See I know of plenty of guys who expressed they KNOW when they got a chick pregnant, so you can not as a MALE tell me you did not plan to be a father prior to the raw dawg & nutting in a female. What qual...