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Shacking Up

People often say they do not want to live with a person they are intimate with prior to marriage. They say that shacking up is taking advantage of the purpose of marriage. Me, I just changed my mind about it. In order to say you are waiting for marriage,you must first know what marriage is. According to the B I B L E, marriage is God’s “fix” for the fact that “it is not good for the man to be alone” ( Genesis 2:18). Thus when man finds the right woman he will become "one flesh" with her. He will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. Becoming one is the physical union of sexual intimacy. If I understand correctly, boy meets girl, boy and girl build a house together, boy and girl make house a home. Well in the biblical sense. In society's state of mind, it is totally different. There has to be a ring,a church,a dress,food,& witnesses. All that equals marriage & oneness. The pastor/priest/whomever has the "powe...

Thinking the Unthinkable

Every since “unthinkable” came out females have been quick to say they ready.ready for what,thou? What is the unthinkable ? is it sex?… Imo it’s marriage & spending FOREVER together as one. I mean she says IF you ask me,hmmm proposal,much? but let us play with the sex being unthinkable… Are you ma'am on birth control? Sir, do you have a rubber in your possession? I only ask because being ready for sex and being ready to be a parent are TOTALLY different… but I'm tired of talking bout SEX (yes I just said tht {thou I'm still in shock frm utterin those words}) I like the idea of tht bein a song about progression in a RELATIONSHIP… this by far are my favorite lines “"This is exactly how it should feel when it's meant to be... Time is only wasting so why wait for eventually?” Only because I’m a tad old-fashioned I like the thought of young marriages like my grandparents had. I mean yeah we could date for umpteen years then be like ok ready to settle down but I mea...