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Sailing on the Ship of Relation


So I recently met someone who was talkin bout they lookin for a lover. I asked what exactly are the qualifications for said lover? The answer was faithful,trustworthy,sexy, and updated their status to say they were in a relationship with said person because in the pass this person had a problem with I guess someone cyber cheating. In effort to keep the convo going I replied,"As a relationship progress then the status should be updated. I don't change my status to in a relationship after just meeting & kicking it. If we hang out & it's fun then I might change it to seeing someone." They replied, "I think we should just be friends." I laughed.

Honestly, was my feelings supposed to be hurt? Haha but that is how a lot of people think a relationship ought to go. One person flirts,the other person flirts back & this is the only common interest. From there people try to build a relationship. I will not claim a relationship til I know favorite team, full name, met at least one friend, & verified one is employeed. If the person I'm hanging out with does not know my favorite color, my favorite pasttime, or how young my youngest sisters are, then they should miss me with the we are a couple line.

Sex is not a determining factor to whether or not we are a couple. That does not translate into I have casual sex often. I'm just saying some times the atrraction is simply sexual and I do not try to pretend that by having sex with that other person will change that. I like being in a relationship but I think we must RELATE in order for that ship to sail...

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CB said…
Totally understand. I think people should know exactly what "a relationship" consist of to each person. Everyone doesn't see it the same way. A lot of "relationships" don't last because too many times it's just that " a relationship" not a "committed relationship". Good read.
June 9, 2011 at 7:07 PM
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