Books b4 Boys Because Bankrolls Buy Benzos! Not trying to downplay ya’ll but my goal is not to be a baby mama but an educated lady. I notice how guys crank their radio up when Webbie or Ne-Yo mentions an independent chick and everyone knows that Boys Bustin Brings Babies. So how can I be the woman of your dreams if I let you hit and leave? Like that new BMW on the lot my value depreciates once you get in and take a ride. I want to be the lead lady in your life. We young what’s the rush? Close your eyes and imagine your ideal wifey type. Is it just me being me thinking that you envision a female Diddy, making moves and money, looking good on your arms when she accompany you to your meetings and public outings? Or do you really see a chick like So Hood, got you looking like a fool even in the ‘hood? You ain’t got to lie cause I already made up my mind. In the end the truth is in the saying, “A MAN is only as GREAT as the WOMAN BEHIND him”. So you can choose what kind of lady you want to represent you but just know I live by them 7B’s!
People often say they do not want to live with a person they are intimate with prior to marriage. They say that shacking up is taking advantage of the purpose of marriage. Me, I just changed my mind about it. In order to say you are waiting for marriage,you must first know what marriage is. According to the B I B L E, marriage is God’s “fix” for the fact that “it is not good for the man to be alone” ( Genesis 2:18). Thus when man finds the right woman he will become "one flesh" with her. He will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. Becoming one is the physical union of sexual intimacy. If I understand correctly, boy meets girl, boy and girl build a house together, boy and girl make house a home. Well in the biblical sense. In society's state of mind, it is totally different. There has to be a ring,a church,a dress,food,& witnesses. All that equals marriage & oneness. The pastor/priest/whomever has the "powe...
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